Moving Day...again...

Rough day around here. Mom called me this morning sobbing. She is racked with guilt and wants to bring my Dad home from the nursing home. He's being well taken care of and is beginning to get adjusted, so this is a shame. My brother and I have not been able to convince her to leave him there. I told her they will both go down quickly, but she says she doesn't care. She doesn't want to take him back until he's incoherent and isn't aware of where he is. And the same for her. Oh dear me..... I may have to be put in the nursing home. Or the psych ward.